Souths coach Wayne Bennett has revealed that the first indication there was something seriously wrong with Jai Arrowâs health came in December, six months before the 30-year-oldâs shattering motor neurone disease diagnosis was made public.
Arrowâs plight rocked the footy world when it was announced on May 20, with the tough-as-teak star revealing the incurable and deadly condition is already impacting his ability to speak.
Bennett said alarm bells started ringing for Arrow just before Christmas last year as he prepared for the current season.
âJai was noticing some changes to himself. He couldnât hold the ball properly and didnât have any strength in one of his arms,â the Bunnies coach told News Corp.
âHe could hold the ball, but he wasnât gripping it properly.
âIn the weights room, he found himself not as strong as he had been.

Souths coach Wayne Bennett has revealed Jai Arrow (pictured) first started noticing worrying signs about his health during preseason training last December

Arrow (left) and Bennett are pictured at the press conference that announced the Bunnies starâs forced retirement

Arrow (pictured with his fiancĂŠe Berina Colakovic and their daughter Ayla Rae) lost strength in one of his arms and couldnât hold a footy properly
âSomething wasnât right. He kept training with us, but we took him out of contact sessions.
âWe thought maybe he had a shoulder injury and thatâs when the process started, to find out what was going on with his body.
âWe kept it pretty tight, even within the club.
âBut the boys [Arrowâs teammates] were starting to see the deterioration in him.
âA few came to me and said, âIs Jai OK?â
Souths skipper Cameron Murray paid tribute to Arrow while he prepares to play for NSW in the first Origin match on Wednesday.
âThereâs no better bloke and weâre all behind him,â Murray said on Saturday.
âWe all love him, so weâll be there with him through this fight. Itâs cruel, life can be pretty cruel sometimes.â

The 30-year-old footy star (pictured with Colakovic) has been hailed by Souths captain Cameron Murray as fans push for the NRL to launch a fundraising campaign for him

Arrow played nine matches for Queensland and has been invited into Origin camp by the Maroons this year
There has been an online push launched by fans â and backed by several high-profile players â for the NRL to introduce a âTry for Jaiâ campaign to support Arrow, a 30-year-old father, in his battle with the insidious disease.
The NRL has previously run a âTry Julyâ initiative where playersâ post-try celebrations are rewarded with donations to charity.
âI think that would be a great initiative, if we can all do our part and help out in some small or big capacity. I would love to get on board with that,â said NSW hooker Blayke Brailey.
âHopefully the NRL and the clubs can sort something out because I think thatâll be an amazing initiative for him.â
Murray said Arrowâs heroics as a player for Souths â particularly over recent seasons when he played through injury â would not be forgotten.
âOver the last couple of months heâs shown an incredible amount of strength with what heâs been going through,â Murray said.
âThe strength that heâs shown in the face of such a cruel disease has been amazing.
âHeâs definitely left his mark on rugby league for sure and particularly since he got to the club in 2021 heâs left his mark on all of us.
âWeâre all better people for knowing Jai and weâre all right behind him and itâs really good to see the support that heâs got.â


