A heartbroken Terry Daniher says his hero brother, Neale, would not want people to be āsookingā about his death.
Itās classic Daniher āget on with itā practicality ⦠so evident in Neale and also his older brother Terry ⦠born from a time when the family worked as wheat and sheep farmers.
āHe wouldnāt want us sobbing and sooking,ā Terry (who is not only Nealeās beloved big brother but former Essendon teammate) told 7NEWS.
āHeād want us to get on with the job, keep creating the awareness (about MND) and keep working at trying to find a cure for this damn disease.ā
Neale Daniher was born on February 15, 1961, the second of four sons, and one of 11 children, of Jim and Edna Daniher, farmers near Ungarie in central NSW.
And from those humble, down-to-earth beginnings, rose a man who became a hero to a nation, loved by all who met him.


On Tuesday, the day after his sad but inevitable death, tributes were pouring in from far and wide, and from those who knew him well.
He was being remembered as a champion on the field and a hero off it for his dedication to changing the lives of people with motor neurone disease.
Former teammate and the very first Big Freeze slider, Tim Watson, made a frank admission about how Neale had impacted his life.
āHe went from being a teammate to a friend, but ultimately he became my hero. I told him that one day ⦠āyouāre a hero to me and youāre a hero to so many other people because of the way that youāve met this challenge in life,āā Watson said.
āI was in awe of him.ā
After knee injuries cruelled his playing career at Essendon, Neale took over as coach of Melbourne. His straight talking won him admirers straight away.
Former superstar forward Garry Lyon recalled Nealeās first impression: āHe came in and told us we were, by far and away, the worst football club in the competition. And then he just turned it and said, but weāve got an opportunity to get to work.ā
Former Melbourne star and captain Todd Viney said: āApart from my father, really, heās had the biggest influence of my life, even though he was only five years older than me.ā
None of his mates were surprised by the way he fought MND for 13 long years.
Essendon premiership coach Kevin Sheedy, whose father died from the disease within two years, said: āHe was so strong a person that itās incredible. We all will look back and realise we lived in the realms of a very special person as a human being and caring for others.ā
Melbourne captain Max Gawn, who has played in all the Big Freeze games, thought Neale was invincible.
āItās hit me all different ways over the last 24 hours. Iām starting to get that part in grief where I wish I gave him like one last cuddle,ā Gawn said on Triple M.


āI took him for granted a little bit. Like the fact that heās been doing this for 12 years, you just thought he was going to be around forever.ā
There are calls for 100,000 people to pack the MCG on Kingās Birthday to celebrate Nealeās life and keep his legacy going.
āI think itās vitally important and I think theyāll pack the rafters at the MCG for this game,ā Watson said.
āThe great thing that we can all do is make sure that we pass these stories on to the next generation of people so that in 50, 100 years, wherever down the track, we are still celebrating Neale Daniher and what he did for this country.ā
The MCG and other public buildings will be bathed in blue light tonight to honour Neale Daniher, the first of many public memorials.
ā with AAP


